From Limbo to Love - Relationship Assessment

🌸 Welcome


Take a slow breath before you begin.


This isn’t a test — it’s a short, 20‑question self‑assessment designed to offer clear insights into the strengths and challenges within your relationship. You’ll discover which areas are thriving and which are quietly asking for more care and attention.

🪷 Instructions

You’ll rate each statement on a scale of 1 (Rarely) to 5 (Always) across the five key systems of connection:

  • Safety & Security

  • Self‑Worth & Identity

  • Desire & Vitality

  • Belonging & Love

  • Meaning & Purpose

🪷 How it works:

1. Read each statement and choose the number that best matches how true it feels right now.

2. When all five sections are complete, you’ll see a summary showing your highest and lowest scores.

3. Add the numbers together to find your total Relationship Assessment score (out of 100).

💛  For the most accurate picture, answer truthfully based on how things feel at this moment in your current marriage or relationship.

You can also use this assessment to reflect on the dynamics of a past relationship — the patterns often stay the same until they’re understood.

Remember, there are no right or wrong answers — only insight.

Your email is collected so we can send you:

  • The Marriage Limbo Guide Booklet offering deeper guidance on how to apply what you discover here.

  • Links to watch the Masterclass Trainings and book a complimentary Clarity Call with Amara if you’d like more personalized support.

🧭  1. Safety and Security Limbo

This section checks your Emotional Attachment System.

Rate each statement about how true it feels right now.

🌻  2. Self-Worth and Identity Limbo

This section checks your Inner Integrity System/Alignment system. 

Rate each statement about how true it feels right now.

 🔥  3. Desire and Vitality Limbo 

This section checks your Vitality System (energy, desire, and life force). 

Rate each statement about how true it feels right now.

🍃   4. Belonging and Love Limbo

This section checks your Interconnection System 

Rate each statement about how true it feels right now.

🌌  5. Meaning and Purpose Limbo

This section checks your Interconnection System 

Rate each statement about how true it feels right now.